Bright Horizons | by Maria

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Sen arziganing uchun emas, U al-Kariymligidan.
Sen bir ishni qotirganinig uchun emas, U al-Wahhab bo'lganidan.
Sen haqli bo'lganing uchun emas, Uning Buyukligidan.
Qalbing pok bo'lgani uchun emas, U senga yaxshilikni iroda qilgani uchun.
O'rningni bil, Robbingni bilasan.
Robbingni tani, o'zingni bilasan.
Ulul albab yozdi
@Horizons_byMaria

Bright Horizons | by Maria
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Negativ maqsad
2010-yil.
Umrimda birinchi marta Yevropaga chiqqanman. Shvetsiyada o‘qiyman, yotoqxonada yashayman.
Va umrimda birinchi marta uyimda doimiy issiq suv bor edi.
Oddiy tuyuladi, lekin men uchun bu shok bo‘lgan.
Shunda ichimda bitta qat’iy qaror tug‘ilgan:
“Qayerda bo‘lsam ham, endi hech qachon issiq suvsiz uyda yashamayman.”
Bu orzu emas edi. Bu –
og'riqdan
qochish
edi.
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Mavzuga jiddiyroq qarasak
Biz katta orzular qilamiz, katta maqsadlar qo‘yamiz, rejalar tuzamiz.
Lekin baribir joyimizdan qimirlamaymiz.
Nega?
Chunki insonni qattiq harakatga keltiradigan narsa – orzu emas, og‘riq.
Shamollaymiz, isitmamiz chiqadi. Isitma foydali bo‘lsa ham, darrov dori ichamiz.
Nega?
Chunki bosh og‘rig‘ini xohlamaymiz.
Boy bo‘lishni orzu qilishdan ko‘ra, kambag‘al bo‘lib qolmaslik uchun odam ko‘proq harakat qiladi.
Yuqori komfortga intilishdan ko‘ra, xorlikdan, qaramlikdan, uyatdan qochish kuchliroq turtki beradi.
Atrofimizda biz hurmat va havas qilgan tadbirkorlar bor. Ular bilan yaqindan suhbat qilsak bir narsani tushunamiz. Ularning tadbrikorlik orzularidan ko’ra kattaroq og’riqlari bor. O'sha og'riqlar ularni katta ishlar qilishga undaydi.
Inson ko‘proq baxt tomon emas, azobdan qochishga harakat qiladi.
(Biz aytayotgan tushunchani Kahneman/Tversky Yo'qotishdan qochish - loss aversion deb ataydi)
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Demak biz orzularimizdan ko’ra og’riqlarimizni topishimiz kerak.
Qanday topamiz?
3 dona savol bilan
1. “Men qanday hayotda yashashni xohlamayman?”
Qaram bo‘lib yashash? Qarzdor? Boshqalarga yalinib? Imkoniyatsiz? O‘zini hurmat qilolmay? Qog’oz-qalam olamiz, yozamiz.
2. “O’sha hayotga tushmaslik uchun hozir nima qilishim kerak?” Javoblarni yozamiz.
3. “Nega harakat qilmayapman?”
Yengni shimarib, ishga kirishamiz.
Shunda barchasi o'zgarganini his qilamiz.
Bek Olimjon
09.01.26
Norvegiya

And all of them are just being in relax in this dunya
I want my life be with happiness and productive .
Learn my religion more and be faithful
and donate a lot
and resieve more helps
and teach more students
and If God wants I do
means He already wants that's why He put it in my heart
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#self_develop
#business
В этом месяце я начал изучать основы бизнеса и хотел бы поделиться этими знаниями с вами.

Sometimes I think a lot, and I always ask myself so many questions
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why?
Why can’t I do it? Why do I dream so much about things I truly want, yet still end up failing?
I replay my mistakes in my head and compare myself to people who seem to move forward so easily. I tell myself I should be stronger, faster, better by now. But instead, I feel stuck—full of ideas, full of hope, yet tired of trying again and again.
Still, deep inside, I know one thing: the fact that I question myself means I care. The fact that I dream means I haven’t given up. Maybe failure isn’t proof that I can’t do it, but proof that I’m still learning how. Maybe my path is just slower, not wrong.
And maybe one day, all these “whys” will turn into one clear answer: because I didn’t stop believing in myself, even when it was hard.
@Horizons_byMaria

Goodbye , Stranger Things!
It feels strange to write this, bcuz saying goodbye to my N1 fav series feels like saying goodbye to a part of my own life.
For SIX years, you were more than just a series to me
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. I watched you again and again, and I never got tired of you. I grew up with you. In many ways, my teenage years and my emotions are deeply tied to this story. You were always there — in moments of comfort, sadness, excitement, and escape
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I loved every character, felt every character and emotion, and carried their pain as if it were my own. They weren’t fictional to me — they were pieces of my heart.
And Eleven… my sweet, broken, brave Eleven
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. She deserved peace. She deserved happiness. Losing her feels deeply unfair, and my heart still refuses to accept it.
Now you’re over, and I feel empty — because something that shaped me is gone
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But I will always be grateful. For the memories. For the comfort. For growing up with you
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