
On the Spectrum
Sometimes people's sadness makes us uncomfortable. Then, we unconsciously try to remind their responsibility for their own sadness, instead of showing some empathy.
Imagine, you get a sore throat, if the other person say, "o'zing sovuq suv ichgansan-da, boshqa ichma" to you while you are sick, instead of saying, "oh, poor thing, you will get well soon". Then, they are not showing you some care. They are validating their discomfort.
It took me a lot to realize that.
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I don't think I've had enough of Jizzakh yet..
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Yangi sog'ilgan sutga non to'g'rab ichishning gashtini qayerdanam bilardilar)
We don't teach children how to be upset. Then, they grow up to seek validation when they get upset.
Such a sad realization.
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Best things while running in Uzbekistan :
1. Yangi suv sepilgan yo'laklar
2. Novvoyxonalarning hidi
3. Masjidning yonida turgan veliklar
And this is what I do right after I come home)
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